Relationship with surrogate mother

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    Mike Forbes

    Hello! I’m on the process to become a single dad through surrogacy… I’m currently taking the first steps (talking with my agency staff) but I’m really excited! I live in the USA…
    I need an egg donor of course, but the embryos will be created using my sperm. But I’m really confused because I’m not sure if I will be able to choose my surrogate. Can I choose her out of a pool of surrogates and then get to know her in person? I’d like to become friends with her… Thnx!

    01/29/2018 at 15:36
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    Sandra F.
    Surrogacy Specialist

    Dear Mike,

    If you’re doing it in the USA, then you should not worry about this. Agencies in the USA actually try to promote a close relationship between the surrogate and the intended parents. In fact, it helps make the process easier for both parties. You will be able to choose her, but she has to choose you, too. Only if both parties agree, you will be able to sign the contract and get started.

    I hope this helps,

    Best

    01/30/2018 at 17:05
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    zeena

    This is really great, I pray that you have a successful journey. You are thinking too much you definitely would be able to choose the best surrogate for your child. You seem to be a very good person the surrogate would also be okay to work for you. In these cases agreement between both parties matter. It will not be only your decision. Don’t take stress all will be fine. Hoping you found the best surrogate and have a blessed journey.

    08/29/2018 at 14:34
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